11) Mercedes Benz - not BMWs. Those are for young kids. Older Koreans love the Benz. I once rolled up on my Mom's house during one of her poker games (see #14) and saw 4 Benzs lined up across her driveway. Looked like a Sopranos sit-down.
12) Karaoke - Ok, I won't use a Japanese word to describe what Koreans like. Norae-bang. There that's a Korean word to describe what Koreans like to do: sing in front of their friends, peers, fellow church members. Don't matter who - when asked, you get up and start singing from your repertoire. My parents practice their songs during the week. It's serious stuff.
13) Toothpicks - Yup, the men love toothpicks. You pick one up on the way out from your soon dubu, kalbi fest and pop it into your mouth. You remove it later when you need to smoke. Women take a more covert approach to toothpickin'. They will cover one hand over their mouth while the other hand works the instrument in between all of their teeth. Word to these women: I see what you are doing! The hand does not help! Do this at home!!!
14) Poker (gambling in general) - Nothing makes my Mom happier than gambling. I'm not talking about video poker or loose slots. I'm talking about 21 and poker. As my brother said, when she gambles - she forgets that she is a Mom. We are like foster kids. She throws some money at us and runs away, mumbling something about meeting us back at the hotel room. It's crazy. 2 or 3 a.m. is not unusual time to see her again. It's amazing.
15) Cold hard cash aka scrilla - I can count on my fingers how many times my parents bought me a present that was wrapped. Screw the bow. Usually I got a really old card (Happy Birthday Niece) my Mom found in her drawer somewhere with a little somethin' somethin'. As a child, this was disappointing - but as an adult - I love it. In fact, I lurve it. More people should give cash. Good for the giver and recipient.
